I was in museum this day. Very calm place, usually. I like to walk around, see old things. Paintings, statues, history. It is a good way to spend afternoon. I stop near a big display. It has old pottery, many pieces behind glass. I was just reading small card, the one that tells you about the history of the pot. Many years old, very delicate. My mind was on the ancient people who make this thing.
Then, a woman come to me. She was standing very close. I did not notice her at first. My head was down, reading. She clear her throat. I look up. She has a very strong look on her face. Like she expects something. Like I should know what she needs before she even speaks. I felt a small confusion. My eyebrows went up a little.
“Excuse me,” she says. Her voice was not soft. It was sharp, like a knife. “You are working here, yes? I need some help. This place, it is too big. I cannot find what I want.”
My eyes blinked. I was wearing my own clothes. Just a regular shirt and pants. No uniform, no name tag, nothing. I held small bag, my own bag. Not a museum bag. “Oh, no,” I tell her. “I do not work here. I am just a visitor. Like you.”
I thought this was simple. Clear. Done. But the woman, she just stared. Her eyes did not change. Her face, it stayed hard. Like she did not hear me, or she did not believe the words I say. It made my stomach feel a little tight. This was not normal reaction. Most people, they say “Oh, sorry!” and walk away. Not this woman.
“Do not be silly,” she says. My mouth almost fell open. “Of course you work here. You are standing by this display. You are looking at things. You look very busy, very important. I need to know where is the children’s section. My grandchild, he wants a dinosaur toy. A special one. Big, with teeth. You must know where it is. You are employee.”
I felt a small heat start in my chest. My confusion was getting bigger. “Ma’am, truly, I am not working here. I am just a person visiting the museum. I do not know where the dinosaur toys are. I do not know about the children’s section.” My voice was getting a little firmer. I wanted her to understand. I wanted her to leave me alone.
She shook her head. A small, impatient shake. “This is ridiculous. All employees say this. They want to avoid work. But I am customer. I pay my ticket. I deserve help. Show me where is the gift shop. Where is the dinosaur. My grandson is waiting. He is very impatient boy. You must help me now.”
My muscles in my shoulders began to tense. I took a deep breath. This was not going well. I looked around. I saw some other people, they were looking at us, with curious expressions. I did not like to be center of attention. Not for this. “I cannot show you, because I truly do not know. I am not trained. I am not an employee here. If you need help, you should find someone who works here. Someone with a uniform.”
“You are rude!” she suddenly shouts. It was not a loud shout, but sharp enough to make my ears ring a little. “This is terrible service. I will report you! What is your name? I will get you fired for this. You pretend not to work here, but you do. You are lazy. You do not want to help old woman. This is a shame.”
I felt a throbbing start behind my eyes. A headache was coming. This was getting very unpleasant. I did not understand why she kept insisting. It was like her brain could not process the simple fact. I was just another visitor. I thought about walking away, but she was blocking my path a little, and she was still talking, accusing me of things. My face was starting to feel warm. This was very frustrating.
“I am not an employee, so you cannot fire me,” I said, trying to keep my voice even. My patience was very thin. “I can go find someone who works here, if you like. I can point them out for you.” I scanned the area, trying to spot someone with a uniform. I saw a young man a little way off, near a different exhibit, wearing a blue shirt with the museum’s logo. Perfect.
“No!” she screamed again. This time it was louder. Other visitors definitely stared now. My cheeks flushed. “You do not trick me! You are going to get your friend. You are going to tell lies. You are going to say I am difficult. No, you will help me. You will go to the children’s section. You will find the dinosaur toy for my grandson. Right now. You are paid for this, yes?”
I felt a surge of pure anger. It was like a hot wave. My hands clenched at my sides. How could someone be so… dense? So unwilling to listen? My head hurt more. I took a step back, needing some space. “I am not paid for this. I am a customer. I am not an employee. I am going to get someone who works here to help you, because I cannot.” I gestured towards the young man in the blue shirt. “See? That man, he works here. He can help you.”
The woman’s face turned a color like a ripe tomato. Her voice got even higher. “You are trying to get rid of me! You are trying to make me look bad! You are so disrespectful! I have never seen such rudeness from a museum worker. I will call the manager. I will tell them everything. You will be sorry! You think you are so smart, pointing out someone else. No, you are going to take me to the toy. This is your job!”
My jaw was tight. I could feel my blood pressure rising. This was beyond belief. I began to walk towards the young man in the blue shirt. I needed to get away from her, and I needed to get her real help so she would stop bothering me. This was the only way. As I walked, she followed right behind me, yelling. “Stop running away! You are supposed to help me! This is terrible! A disgrace!”
The young man in the blue shirt saw me coming, and he saw the woman behind me. His eyes widened a little. He knew something was wrong. I got to him, feeling a rush of relief just to be near someone who actually worked there. “Excuse me,” I said to him, trying to keep my voice low and calm, even though I was vibrating with frustration. “This lady needs help. She thinks I work here, and she needs to find the children’s section and a dinosaur toy.”
The woman, however, was not quiet. She pushed past me slightly to get in front of the young man. “This one!” she shrieked, pointing a finger at me. “This one refused to help me! She lied! She said she does not work here! But she does! She is lazy! She is rude! I want her fired! Immediately! She should be ashamed!”
The young man, to his credit, looked a little stunned but very professional. He looked at me, then at her. He could clearly see I was not wearing a uniform. He opened his mouth to speak, probably to de-escalate. But the woman was not finished. She started yelling even louder, making a scene that drew even more attention. A small crowd started to form, just watching. My face was burning. I wanted to disappear. This was so embarrassing. All because she could not accept a simple truth.
“She needs to be fired!” the woman repeated, now practically screaming. “She thinks she can treat customers this way! I will not stand for it! Where is your manager? I want to speak to them about this terrible employee! She refused to help me find a simple toy for my grandson!”
I saw two people now. One was a security guard. He had a radio. The other was a woman in a smart black suit, likely a manager. They were both walking quickly towards us, their expressions serious. The young man in the blue shirt was trying to say something to the screaming woman, but she ignored him, too busy yelling about me.
As soon as the screaming woman saw the security guard and the manager approaching, her face changed. The anger, it stayed, but now there was a flicker of something else. Something like panic. She stopped yelling mid-sentence. Her eyes darted around, like a trapped animal. The manager, she was still some distance away, not close enough yet to hear everything clearly. But she was coming.
The woman took a quick step back. Then another. She did not say goodbye. She did not apologize. She just turned around and began to walk very fast, almost running, away from the scene she had created. She bumped into a small pedestal with a display of brochures, knocking them to the floor. She did not stop. She just kept going, disappearing into the crowd near the exit. It was so sudden. One minute, she was demanding I be fired, the next she was gone. My shoulders slumped. The headache, it felt like a drum beating inside my head. The silence, after her loud exit, was almost as shocking as her presence.